Are you HAPPY?

Happiness is a verb...

Have you ever come across a person who complains all the time, is quick to anger, constantly talks negative about other people or constantly thinks the glass is half empty, yet when you talk to them they swear they are happy? They walk around with their eyebrows furrowed, they hardly say hello, is usually self-centered, anti-social and always seems to have a grievance with someone.

Conversely, have you ever seen someone who lights up a room when they walk in? They greet everyone pleasantly with a smile, kiss or hug. Their demeanor is often very pleasant, they are quick to laugh and very considerate of others. They give of their resources or time and look for the good in people. When you look at them you get a good feeling in your heart because their actions are not contrived or forced, it just pours naturally from them....happy people usually bring out the best in others.

When someone is happy it's usually not because of their material possessions, they are not defined by titles, they don't always have fame or fortune, they are sometimes a regular person from around the way. Happiness usually comes from vast sources; a person being comfortable in their skin, self confidence (not narcissism), a sense of faith or a connection to a higher being. They come from a place of understanding that the glass is always half full and there is always good lurking around the corner.

Happiness comes in many different packages, but one things for sure, you never have to tell people how happy you are because happiness shines through your actions and behavior. This is not to say that happy people are perfect and don't get frustrated or upset, but they are usually content and their motive is never to hurt people. Happy people are rarely rude, disrespectful or mean spirited because happiness brings out the best in people, not the worst.

So I ask you today, Are you happy?

Have a wonderful, blessed and HAPPY Holiday weekend.